Healing...

When I am asked during a demo session to explain what a pelvic massage/healing is and what I do exactly, I always find it quite difficult to be able to put it into words.

It is first and foremost an energetic session, not a massage with a physiotherapist. To be honest, I'm not really a fan of the word "healing"...

A lot of people want to "heal" these days. On social media, healing practices are popping up like mushrooms, as a kind of new business model.

The human necessity to want to "heal" often starts from the mental part, which wants to maintain the belief that you have to do something active to heal. Unconsciously you start from the assumption that something in you is missing, blocked, etc for which you need "healing".

And this is exactly the big pitfall. In fact, it is more about leaving something you do, where you isolate pieces of yourself, so to speak, or place something in between. It probably sounds pretty harsh but you do your insomnia, you do your depression, you do your neurosis.

It's just that we're not aware of how we do this. You cannot experience this consciousness through thoughts. Healing is precisely" stopping doing". it invites us to stop our "doing, dissolving self" for a while. Trying to stop the addiction from our thinking, from our "wanting" and to experience peace in "being". Only then does control disappear and life can flow through us. To where it can flow again.

So I always find it a great gift when the woman on my mat falls asleep during a session, dares to surrender and therefore has not been able to comprehend from the mental part. This is the greatest gift you can give your own body and only in this way, from the deepest relaxation, is healing possible. The sacred feminine only shows itself to those who can let go of control and dare to let go of their façade.

I have a lot of respect for the subtlety of this layer where we can be together, in silence and within our own individuality. A unique connection from the womb.